Friday, April 28, 2017

"NEVER HADLANG ANG LOVELIFE SA PAGAARAL " His Story Will Inspire You

STORY WRITTEN BY:




Let’s admit it, most of us believe that being in a relationship is the biggest distraction to reach our dreams because if the ‘unexpected’ happened, you’ll be left with another responsibility that will compromise the achievement of your goals in life. However, this college graduate proved that his relationship with his girlfriend never became a hindrance to his studies.



Meet Christian Mabanta, a Computer Science graduate, who became viral with his post sharing his hardships before he graduated particularly the instance when he was mocked for being so attached with his girlfriend Kim shane.

According to Christian, his encounter with the panel during his thesis defense fuelled him to prove that being in a relationship is not detrimental to achieving your BS degree especially in Computer Science which required rigorous effort for one to graduate.

During his defense, one of the panels noticed the photo of his girlfriend inserted in his ID. The panel then started to bombard Christian with hard and confusing questions which he failed to answer. After the defense, the panel advised him to stop being too attached with his girlfriend because they thought that she caused him too much distraction.

On his post, he defended his girlfriend whom he defined as his inspiration and outlet every time problems arise. He also admitted that sometimes he runs to his girlfriend when he’s budget short due to some requirements in school. His girlfriend is always there to help him in everything not to mention she was there as his review and study buddy days before his thesis defense.

Now, Christian has gained his BS degree and hoping that his experience could help some couples who are in doubt with their relationship as being a hindrance to reach their dreams.


NEVER HADLANG ANG LOVELIFE SA PAGAARAL. 🎓🔥 "Ayan puro ka girlfriend. Aralaral rin." "Puro ka nalang Kimshane." "Mr. Mabanta tigiltigilan mo nga yang pag gigirlfriend mo." 3rd year College Computer Science. Suot ko sa aking ID ng 2x2 picture ng girlfriend kong si Kimshane, until isang aral sa kalagitnaan ng defense namin ay nakita ng Panel ang picture nya sa ID ko. Sinimulan nya akong tanungtanungin ng mga mahihirap na questions ukol sa system namin, sa flow ng algorithm nya at mga "what-if's" questions hangang sa di ko na kinaya silang sagutin. Alam nyo sinabi nya saakin? "Wag kase puro girlfriend." 😓 May mga times na nakikita kami ng aking mga kakilala ko pag naglalakad kami pauwi, umiiling sila. Bawat pagkukulang ko, bawat pagkakamali, girlfriend ko kaagad ang pinupunterya. Simula noon, sa wallet ko na tinago ang picture nya. Hindi dahil sa naapekto ako o natisod sa sinabi nya, hindi. Dahil nakakabastos sila. 😠 Never syang naging istorbo o hadlang sa aking pagaaral, oo aminado ako na kahit 3 days before defense nung 3rd year pa ako, nagdedate parin kami dahil masaya akong kasama sya. Nawawala ang aking stress, anxiety at kaba pag sya ang kasama ko. At hindi lang yon, nirereview rin nya ako at tinutulungan sa studies pati sa financial problems ko (utang yon syempre, binabayaran ko rin sya. Hihi) Napakaswerte ko na sya ang girlfriend ko. Naiintindihan nya na napakahirap at hindi biro ang pagiging Computer Science student, mas lalo na pag graduating. Never syang nagtampo kapag di kami nagkakasama, di na kami masyado nagdedate nung kasagsagan ng thesis namin at madalas ay pamasahe lang ang aking dala dahil naubos lahat ng pera ko sa pagpiprint at pagbibili ng materyales. Napakalaki ng ambag nya at hindi sya naghahanap ng ano mang kaukulang kapalit. Dahil gusto nya matupad ang pangarap ko at makapagtapos, para matulungan ko na ang aking mga magulang at ipagaral ang aking kapatid. Ngayon graduate na ako. Sa mga College Students na nabubully rin dahil sa lovelife, eto masasabi ko sainyo. Walang saysay lahat ng pinagsasabi nila saatin dahil alam natin na WALA SILANG ALAM. Hinawakan ko ng mahigpit ang aking panata na gragraduate ako. Kahit napakahirap, kahit na unang thesis namin ay dinurog kami na halos 2 weeks kaming tulala. Mga gabing napapahinto ako sa pag gawa ng thesis dahil di ko sya maayos at maiiyak sa sobrang hirap. Kahit na muntikan na kami hindi makagraduate sa mga naiwan naming subject na "Do or Die" ang sitwasyon namin. Kahit na sinabihan kami ng kapwa classmate namin "Basta ako gragraduate. Di ko lang alam sainyo." Hindi naging masaya paglalakbay ko. Sinira na nila minsan ang fighting spirit ko. Pero bangon parin tayo, para sa ating mga mahal sa buhay. Ang girlfriend ko ang nagsilbing consultant ko sa lahat ng aking problema. Gawin nyong inspirasyon ang iyong mga mahal sa buhay. Gawin nyo silang rason para gumising ka ng 5am kahit na ang tulog mo ay 3am. Nandyan sila para tulungan ka sa hirap at sa ginhawa, sa magaganda at mapapait na kabanata ng iyong buhay. Wag na wag kayo natitisod sa mga sinasabi ng iba sapagkat alam mo mismo sa inyong sarili na MALI SILA. DI NILA ALAM BUONG KWENTO MO. Kahit na masasakit na salita ang sinasabi nila sainyo, kayanin mo. Patunayan mo mismo sa kanila na mali sila. PAYPAYAN MO SILA NG DIPLOMA MO (wag hampas, masisira). Biggest revenge mo ay ang tagumpay mo. Christian D. Mabanta 🎓🎓🎓 Bachelor of Science in Computer Science New Era University 2017 Kimberly Shane M. Samane 😻 Bachelor of Science in Medical Technology Arellano University 2nd Year "GRADUATE NA AKO. HINDI NYO AKO NATIBAG."


0 comments

Post a Comment